25th July 2014
Children - Suspicious Observer…
Today in fresh morning I was doing my work with my laptop and suddenly my daughter is came from her room and talked to her maa about her yesterday’s school activity and I surprised to notice that she always used to spoken her sir’s and madam’s activities constantly... even I am happy to see her collaboration with her maa about the same as well good to heard her words whatever she spoken.
Then after I went to put her at her study class which are different from school (in Gujarat though the rule is in negative mode, so much private classis are running) and again she spoken such words about her madam and told me during the time while she is seated behind me on two seater. Same moment I decided to write such matter on that what children are accepting as well expecting from the elder.
See, we all are very good while saying good notes, matter, subject, story to children but some of our activity are very different as we can said that those are our practically sanctioned for our personal level but when a child observing the same and when he/she doing such same style work in absence of elder and when we know the same...may be some times such condition is very unbearable for all at same moment.
We could not justify our self for the same episode and making big style of surprise on our face if the same is in positive mode and/or making big anger on our face if the same is in negative mode. Sometimes, people feeling shame for own karma or work from which the child doing or making copy.
Mostly we people try to make good, smart as well better personality in home or office against the any child and that is for our or any body’s child has to maintain such good repo in her mind and try doing better work for human or society is our mind set up. The statement is mostly approximately correct in favourable condition.
In such case the child have some own efficiency and doing better performance in her childhood as well in life and our government giving big certificate as well respect on national days. There are somuch examples are there.
In such case in house sometimes the elder people have so much office or business work or in the race of earning money or doing facing some spiritualness problem or social problem, anyhow, forget to take care of her own child care and result could be face by us is in different type of mode. Either the same is in negative or positive...
We all are very well known or familiar about the movies from which we are knowing very good about the social image as well what is done or to be done for better progress in or for the society, where so much kind of people staying together. But that is in positive factor that mostly thinking good for the children and mostly tries to do good even better and best roll part in life when any child is staying near of them. That is the most effective sense.
We can talk on media part also who are generally discussing or showing news of different style as they also have to earn for FOOD. We could not refusing the same as when such child or such elder personnel doing BAD or GOOD thing, we justifying in front of our child and try to make better response to the same subject for positivity.
Even more, the children mostly follow the tradition whatever they are looking surrounding.
In some houses
if elder people doing prayer, respecting religion feelings
if the elder people doing constant work for job or business,
if the elder people doing the work constant on such subject,
if the elder people reading or watching news,
if the elder people taking a part in the group discussion,
if the elder people respecting all,
if the elder people behaving in such special manners like positive or negative
etc etc...
the child observing all things and as according behaving in his/her time during the gathering time of children at school or in society.
When I was watching movie duly named FARARI KEE SAWARI, the grand paa of the son said on dialog “Jo Dekhega Wo Sikhega” ie “Whatever he see, he will learn the same” concept is for life not for study room or else.
See, presently we are very familiar about the word “WAR” but not from the side effect. Even during playing game of police and thief, that is very popular in children. But the effect of harm, children are much unknown from the same, as they have knowledge about the TRUTH only, that police definitely find the thief and treat him in strictly punishing mode.
Same as while learning they have proper knowledge about the minimum unit of country’s currency but in the teenager age they could not find that and even the TRADIDTION of the small unit of currency is still going on his path so far away, from the learning process while comparing the international level of the same country currency.
My concept is that, we have to change our personal dignity as well the process of learning as well the system of administration for children as well the teenager children who are not awaking as well not have awareness of the different type of truth from which they can expand their children live better in future. For that, from starting right now, we have to make our behaviour in pleasant mode with self-dignity. Hence we can find truthfulness in our children and we can give support to the future children in facing any mode like parent, uncle & aunty or grand level.
Though I am not professional writer but trying to spreading out my personal thought to you so please forgive my grammar mistakes if any because I know well that whatever you have to do but the thought is coming in your mind is that your mother toungh only then you spread it out in other language. The statement is coming from the best teacher of children duly name Madam Dr. Montessory.
If you have time please check the participation of the same lady about children growth during 1st to five year age... wonderful...
Jigar Mehta
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